This post is going to be short and sweet. It’s a what not to say for your first message.
- Hi, Hey, Sup. (Congratulations you are not 1 of a million copies. Please remember women get dozens of messages a week and 80% are hi.)
- Calling her sexy or hot. (You’re going straight to her looks which if you’re not ridiculously good looking demonstrates an inferior value.)
- Saying anything remotely sexual. (You went straight to seduction without building attraction and comfort.)
- Saying you’re looking for a friend. (She’s not on a dating site to make friends, even if she says it on her profile.)
- Mentioning any sugar daddy or monetary exchange. (She’s not an escort.)