top 5 not to do’s – openers

This post is going to be short and sweet. It’s a what not to say for your first message. Hi, Hey, Sup. (Congratulations you are not 1 of a million copies. Please remember women get dozens of messages a week and 80% are hi.) Calling her sexy or hot. (You’re going straight to her looks which if […]

Openers

The most important aspect of opening someone through a social media or dating website is to stand out from the rest of the crowd. It doesn’t matter that much how funny the things you open with are. What matters is that you’re opening with something that isn’t just Hi. Most people leave obvious clues to what […]

5 reasons why I would message back

I admit I have been a bit of a serial monogamist the past couple of years. After one of my last breakups, I decided to explore the online dating world and told myself… this is okay! Everyone is doing it… it isn’t sketchy at all! Stigmas aside, (I mean… it is a little overwhelming to […]