the 6 superior values

In the Pick Up world, there are many different opinions as to what gets girls interested in guys. There are even several shady yet interesting acronyms such as DHV, DLVs, PUAs, etc, that make the whole thing seem like only a revered few know the secret recipe. Truth be told, these 6 qualities that girls […]

top 5 not to do’s – seduction

You’ve seen how to move from comfort to seduction but here are some tips on what not to do during seduction stage. Do not send her pictures of your junk. Do not send her pictures of your junk. Do not send her pictures of your junk. Do not send her pictures of your junk. Do […]

top 5 not to do’s – comfort

When building comfort your goal is to demonstrate superior value while at the same time establishing a connection with the person. You want to also establish that you aren’t just a nice guy and move progressively towards seduction. Top 5 don’ts: Do not only ask questions. (It’s important that you tell funny stories or send […]

top 5 not to do’s – openers

This post is going to be short and sweet. It’s a what not to say for your first message. Hi, Hey, Sup. (Congratulations you are not 1 of a million copies. Please remember women get dozens of messages a week and 80% are hi.) Calling her sexy or hot. (You’re going straight to her looks which if […]

tips to creating an online dating profile

They’re out there somewhere.  You know they exist, but you’re just trying to find a way to make contact with them, hopefully even something more by even getting a chance to meet face to face. Aliens, you say?  Far from it.  We’re talking about finding opportunities to meet new dating interests (for some, the chances […]

when to message that girl

Maybe you’re a bit nervous reaching out to that girl you met through a friend some weeks ago. Or maybe you’re swamped with work or school and can’t find the right time to message her when you will have enough time to think of good lines to message back. So these are all timing issues […]

keeping her on her toes

One of the biggest complaints I hear from both men and women is that many feel texting can get monotonous and boring. They might come up with good questions and build comfort but then things kind of fizzle out as there are only so many questions that you can cover. Because of this, many guys […]

building comfort through text

The first thing I will say is that there’s only so much you can fake. In reality pretending to want to get to know someone will eventually show. You will forget certain facts about the person or you may ask the same questions over and over again. Therefore the #1 rule in building comfort and […]

emoji tips

Ah, emojis. They make flirting over text a fun little game or a complete nightmare. Emojis can escalate so quickly from cute to going way too far. Here are some tips on how to use emojis to your advantage. Show personality. Ideally you could do this with your words alone, but sometimes it is really […]

Openers

The most important aspect of opening someone through a social media or dating website is to stand out from the rest of the crowd. It doesn’t matter that much how funny the things you open with are. What matters is that you’re opening with something that isn’t just Hi. Most people leave obvious clues to what […]